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Dear community There's a song at the end of this prompt that felt deeply true for me this weekend. We are nature.🌵🐝🌋 It reminded me that if we're going to change our world, for ourselves and future generations, perhaps we need to move more like nature itself. Nature doesn't seem to require central control. Nature relies on relationships, communication, feedback and adaptation. Nature also holds love and rage, and expresses both when it is under threat. I'm becoming less convinced that the answer to our social justice challenges lies in superstructures, big hierarchies, large organisations or our current political system. Instead, I wonder if the future belongs to many small, interconnected communities. Groups of people experimenting, learning, sharing, communicating, acting, giving back and showing up for justice. Like butterflies moving from flower to flower, discovering what each has to offer. Like bees pollinating from one plant to another. Like a dying tree returning its nutrients to the forest so new life can emerge. Maybe I spent too much time in nature this weekend. 😊😊😊 It made me realise something. Everything I care about is really about cultivating living systems. Families. Parenting. Community organising. Holding space for leaders. Even tending to my own inner world. The same pattern appears at every scale. The forms of change that last are sustained through relationships. They make room for experimentation. They accept mistakes as part of learning. They adapt. And I notice that when I focus on the more toxic parts of human nature, I can forget the quiet communities that are already modelling another way. Some of my family, friendship and work relationships haven't lasted because we didn't experiment, communicate and learn together. This morning, Eli didn't want to go back to school after chickenpox. Rather than pushing harder, we experimented together. The solution? A game of darts, with Maltesers for the winner of each round. The goal stayed the same: helping us both move into alignment. The path changed. Experiment. Communicate. Adapt. And play... Over the past year I've been developing three simple frameworks with clients around grief, impact and self. The question that gave birth to these frameworks was: How do we cultivate living systems that can keep changing themselves? I'd love to share these three simple frameworks with you sometime. https://calendly.com/mo-belonging-people/connect And the song
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