How to we lead ourselves in a world full of fear and anxiety? 💖😡


Dear community

Lately I’ve been thinking a lot about quiet leadership.

The kind of leadership that helps people feel more connected to themselves, each other and the wider system around them.

The kind of leadership where people eventually say..."We did it ourselves.”

Something I adored supporting when I ran big teams.

But then I look at the noise of Instagram, leaders peddling fear and division to create a following, and a world feeling more oppressed, from increasing food prices to Palestine.

I keep re-reading Chapter 17 of the Tao Te Ching lately, where the verse talks about the best leaders are barely known by the people.

I am struggling with the verse right now. For me the verse is about leadership rooted in relationship, not dominance.

It doesn’t mean being subordinate, or allowing others to dominate.

For me it means amplifying others, even one person, especially my son.

Then I get pulled back into a world surrounded by leaders who are feared. Leaders who oppress. Leaders who lead through hierarchy and power-over.

Sometimes it feels like loudness is rewarded more than care. I think maybe I should be loud. Then I remember any times I lead without clear connection between the mind and heart... Ooops.

Does performance carry more energy than meaningful action?

How do we continue showing up elevating others,, in a world shaped by violence, anxiety and control?

When those oppressors affect our funding, our team's worries, our own anxiety... can we still be the one navigating from a place of groundedness?

And can this form of leadership really meet this moment?

Part of me still believes it can.

Because quiet leadership is not passive. It is....

It is action without spectacle.

Presence without ego (or Instagram 🤣).

It's a relationship with ourselves and with those we lead.

I’m left with a few questions this morning..my neurospicey brain can never just sit with one! 🤣

• What value can I hold in this form of leadership, without needing others to see it?
• How can I act quietly, not loudly, today?
• Who can I connect with today to be curious about their service, not mine?
• Can I remember to play in this beautiful weather, as a form of resistance, not as a form of avoidance?

Let me know how this lands. Talk to me about your teams. I'd love to know what's true for you.

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