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Dear community I took a long break from writing to find my compass again. I realised I had lost my boundaries due to grief. Grief of what I expected, of my ancestors, of the world. Grief of how I have harmed others and others have harmed me. (How I harmed others is right edgy one) Triggered, like many, by the pyramid of cards falling after Trump’s actions this last 18 months. I have found my way back to my compass. It feels like a building, structurally sound, covered in moss. So clear. Like many, I lost a lot of work this last 12 months. Losing purpose also. I have realised that purpose and action were my glue at times. But the glue is deeper than that. It’s the connection to something beyond just us. A visceral connection. It's a connection with someone inside us. Yes, woowoo 🤣 But none of us would be doing this if we weren’t connected to something beyond us. Someone once said, as we get old, we stop believing in Santa Claus and start believing in something else. That’s where capitalism and shopping get most people! 🤣 What do you need to truly grieve today? Grieve it. Make it. Shout. Scream. Dance. Cry. Once it moves, it’s messy. Gosh, so messy. The garden afterwards is beautiful. Joy is past this grief. And so is a new path. Money back guaranteed. **Events - email me for the invites** 🍉PROJECT 10⁹ Amplifiers Session (online) - 5 May, 1pm UK time - Practicing decolonial activism through equanimity and praxis - https://project109.carrd.co/ 🫶🏾 Men in Social Impact - Tender Masculinity (online) -7 May 7.30pm UK time - Play, dad jokes, and I’ll slide in some deeper work on relationships. 🔥💧 Tending to the Social Justice Community (Camden London!!!) - SAVE THE DATE 12–3pm, 17 June - A space to ground, breathe, be together, grieve and then find forward motion. 🌱 Rise in Our Roots (Sheffield) - Nominations needed please! Starts 28 May https://riseinourroots.carrd.co/ All are pay as you feel, even nothing is OK. Taking action from a place of groundedness is the only requirement. Music Annoyingly, this is stuck in my head.
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Dear community So I did my usual meditation this morning. I put a colander on my head, stuck a whisk in the air, and asked the universe a question... Today’s question was: What’s a big challenge in society?” I’m kidding about the first bit (colander and whisk). Although next time Eli asks me one of his endless “Why?” questions, I will genuinely hand him a colander and whisk. 🤣 But I did ask the question... seriously. And the answer that came up was:Men. Not all men. But men. I gulp a little...
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Dear amazing community. Can you help share this? Grief Tenders for Liberation | 17 June 12pm-4pm | Camden Town 30 spaces available! A gathering for activists, social justice campaigners and overwhelmed hearts. I'm partnering with a group of amazing facilitators for a one-off event that will ground you, bring us into community and give us more collective energy. We want to help support you during this time of seismic trauma, in community. We're running it on a donation basis to keep it...